gender
more and more convinced that this whole gender thing is a scam
i heard someone say recently that they have a "quantum" gender –it's only there while observed– and it made something click, cause that pretty much matches my own experience. i have no concept of my own gender while im alone. i dont think i have any gender when i dream.
but like im still a girl. i like when people use she/her on me, i like that when im walking down the street people look at me and think "girl".
i dont really know how that makes any sense, but im so tired of giving more thought to this whole gender thing
(its once again bc of the autism, isnt it?)
i heard someone say recently that they have a "quantum" gender –it's only there while observed– and it made something click, cause that pretty much matches my own experience. i have no concept of my own gender while im alone. i dont think i have any gender when i dream.
but like im still a girl. i like when people use she/her on me, i like that when im walking down the street people look at me and think "girl".
i dont really know how that makes any sense, but im so tired of giving more thought to this whole gender thing
(its once again bc of the autism, isnt it?)
Anne C.A. Baanengender
@annieversary I would say my sense of gender is also almost exclusively social. I don't mind how genderful I act or look (and would go entirely nude if it wasn't for decency, pockets and sunburn) unless someone would notice. And even then it feels like most of my gender feelings are about rejecting gender attributes that are assigned externally.